Sunday, July 12, 2009

Today I am taking a break from my usual posts.
No pictures...No thrift store goodies to share.
Just me sorting out my thoughts on the keyboard.
Senseless rambling.
No need to leave comments.

I love to thrift shop (Oh, that surprised you?!)
Finding a bargain is getting to become a goal in my life.
But when is it too much?

I have truly become more picky about what I bring home.
I now think hard about what purpose it will serve in my home.

I love spending quiet time in my "studio"...creating.
It soothes my soul and mind to sand down to the bare wood. To spray paint. To sand again, to give the piece just the right amount of age. To spread the stain on the finished piece to seal and to age some more.
Are these thoughts of a crazy woman?

Often I hear from my children about the items that are sitting on my small kitchen counter space.
I hear their voices (loud enough for me to hear) say that there is too much clutter.
That there are too many things in the house.
I HEAR them...but I SEE a home that is warm and welcoming. Filled with things that I have created...that I love!

I let them have their own spaces.
Their bedrooms are not prim.
They have clothes lying on the floor, on their beds, in the over flowing hampers.
How can they live like that??? In complete clutter!

Almost all of the items that I purchase are remade and stored in the mobile home on the property next door.
That is where I take my pictures.
When it comes time to remove the mobile home, to build a new building, these beloved items will have a new home.
This new building will become a sanctuary for me, Joe, and any of the children who wish to join us.
It will have no cable tv. No computers. No telephone.
It will consist of one large room, with a kitchen and a keeping room. A wood burner. And of course a bathroom.
It will house a tv and a dvd player...that is all of the electronics that will be allowed.
It will have a fold out bed, for those who want to spend the night.
Joe will also have a workshop on the property. His sanctuary from all the hecticness of the home next door!

I sometimes sit alone in that mobile home....listening to the quietness around me.
Thinking of what is yet to be.

Do any of your families not understand your passion for a simpler time?
With worn finishes?
Or do they embrace this passion with you?
Are they embarrassed to step foot into a TS or a GW store?
Or do they jump at the chance to go with you?
My little ones enjoy going...the teenagers and above....not a chance!
Even Joe would rather stay in the car and wait.

These are the things I have rambling through my brain.
Now I must get ready to get groceries and stop at GW store before I head home.

Enjoy your Sunday!

18 comments:

wrcdgc said...

I had to comment. :) I just started appreciating the TS and GW. My Nanny was a firm beliver in someone's junk may be your gold mine. I went a few times with her and never could get it. Now I wish she were here she would love that I want to go. Anyway my daughetr Jessica (20) has decided she wanted to collect old cameras just for looks. She has been looking on ebay and the prices are crazy. I said we chould go look at the TS and GW. We went yesterday and she found 4 all for a little of nothing. Her exact words were I'm glad I didn't do ebay. :)I guess we all have to live and learn. I enjoyed this post!

Donna

Anonymous said...

Janene,
I have been reading your blog regularly for awhile.
It is in my favorites and I check frequently for updates.
I have never felt quite so strongly about leaving a comment til now.Ironic considering you said no comments neccessary!!
I feel the same way you do!
Thank you for expressing what is in my heart and soul.
My youngest dd is the only one who will go thrifting with me,but not for collectibles or prims.
Her aim is clothing!!!!
Ah well, it is nice to have the company anyway!
Keep up the good work
God bless,
Helen(grammea)
grammea22@verizon.net

carolyn@primitive~devotion said...

Believe it or not, I go through the same dilema everytime I step into a GW ot TS. A few years ago, I gave my home a "clean sweep" and gave away a LOT of things that were
really wonderful prims. But I really don't regret it too much, because my home was filled to the point that I felt as if I was almost drowning in clutter. Having a little less has been wonderful.
I still enjoy the hunt and the process of transforming unwanted items, but I too am trying to only get things that I really love & have use for. We don't have another place to put things, so it's important for me to stay on top of this and not go overboard.
It's hard when yo have a creative side that needs to be released. I don't claim to be "creative" as a lot of others, but when that desire hits, it's hard to control.
All I can say is that you are not alone in your feeling. I wish I had some kind of wonderful advice, but I don't. Just now that there are lots of us that feel just as you.
Be good to yourself this week!

Carmen C. said...

Janene~ How lucky you are to have a "quiet" place to go:)I think re-doing things is really your calling, maybe a small business is in your future?You are SO,SO good at what you do and you know we all love your things! My son will not set foot in a GW, but it dosen't stop me, I find great things there! Although I haven't been going much lately as I have a small house, no room and no money with hubby still off from surgery. I have been spending ALOT of time reflecting on my life lately and it's not what I want it to be. I am at peace when I am safe at home, crafting or making candles. The older I get the more I long for the OLD days...you know what I mean, simpler times with more time to enjoy the little things, I hate my job, it's extremely depressing, physically exhausting, and don't like the people I work with either, Don't like going out and about anymore, I am happiest right here at home! My...now you've got me started, lol!!! I really am striving to SIMPLIFY so I can enjoy what is left of my life! Hope you have a lovely day, and get some of that good old "thinking" time in too:) P.S. Did this comment even make any sense???? LOL,you can tell I'm in a mood today:)

Ann said...

My friend that is why I do what I do. That's why I sew, paint, rearrange the house and make jewels.

When I am creating something whatever it is, I am content and relaxed. It soothes my soul.I like to work late at night when the world outside my door is still. When the air is clear and the children are at rest.

I love thrifting but I am a bit of a loner in the respect that I much prefer to go alone. I don't' want my family to enjoy it, I like to keep it to myself.

Grammy Linda / Behind My Red Door said...

My family does not share my passion for my home decor but some of them enjoy it and even appreciate it. Not on the inlaws side thoug - just my side. But I have been doing this for many many years and I never let them stop me. I don't visit TS or GW much because around here, they don't have the type things I want. But no one else in my family enjoys the primitive stores I enjoy either. That too is OK with me. I would like it if some of my local gal pals enjoyed it more though. But I have all you now so that helps a lot!!

Our really empty nest said...

Hmm, I have to say I am into alot of things that my friends and family are not so much into. I love antiques, my kids say they dont want any of it when i am gone, which is kind of sad. I have recently discovered thrift and GW shopping thanks to my blog friends, but my real life friends and family dont get it at ALL, oh well I think, they dont know what they are missing. I love to bargain shop whether it is a $448 dollar Coach purse that I totally splurged on and got for $138 or a great deal at Big Lots, for me it is the challenge of the hunt. I cant wait to help plan this wedding on a budget, what a great challenge that will be!! I love the simpler times, but not to the extent of losing modern conveniences, lol. But I love the idea of just spending time with family and friends at the house, lots of talking and laughing and such! Keep doing what you are doing and what make you happy!!!

Mandy in Mayberry said...

You said no need to comment, but I think this is a subject that we all struggle with! I personally just in the past year, became interested in the prim style, so I'm learning so much from you all!

The only way I can afford to transform my home into what I want it to be is by thrift store redos and making my own signs. When I look around my home, I love seeing all the nice things that I've bought for next to nothing at GW and yard sales. I've slowed down a bit lately because I really don't want a cluttered look (and our house is small), so I'm only bringing home things that I love and have a place for now.

I totally understand about the longing for a simpler time and the love of well worn things!

Cricket said...

I thrift alone and that's the way I like it. I have been trying to keep my home clutter free, but it still seems to crop up. Therfore, I have been really limiting my thrifty fun. Sounds like your home away from home will be a tranquil retreat.

Anonymous said...

I have become more choosey lately. I do not go to yard sales and only seldom go to thrift stores. I got tired of buying things at thrift stores, only to end up donating them back. Unless something is too good a deal to pass, I pass. I love the uncluttered prim look for my home, but love looking at prim homes cluttered to the high Heavens. Strange, but I get my prim clutter fix through others.

JenW!~ said...

Oh to have a sanctuary like ours sounds like heaven. I one day dream of haveing a place seperate from my home where I can go to contemplate things in my life. My grandma is the one who is aways telling me I have too much clutter but she is a neat freak and sees things alitlle differently than me but I love her anyway.

At Home With Amy said...

My family doesn't get it either. My hubby just goes along with whatever I want to do but I know my decorating is of no interest to him. My daughter hates primitive and anything that has to do with it. She thinks the house is just over run with stuff. My son keeps moving stuff when it is in his way until he has a pile of things in a new spot. I even had one of my very best friends tell me my home looked like a store. I say as long as I love it and it makes me feel good it is all worth it. My home is inviting and people love to come to our house and visit. I must be doing something right because they always say they can't wait to come back again. That has to mean something. You keep doing what makes you happy. When our kids grow up and have homes of their own, they can decorate how they like and their kids can hate their style just like they do ours.
Hugs,
AMY

Kindra said...

It's hard to turn away items, I do that a lot simply because I have no room or money or both. LOL But it's wonderful that we can take someone's "trash" and make it into a delightful treasure!

cynthialeedesigns said...

Janene,
I really enjoyed reading your post today. I believe that many of us feel like you do!!
I do have a friend that has this passion also for finding treasures in the thrift shops...so we go junkin' together a lot. My youngest DD likes to go sometimes to look for old records...but she does not like anything prim/primitive!! And my oldest DD won't go anywhere need a TS.
I sometimes feel that I have too much, but a lot of what I purchased is redone and sold at my craft shows. However, there are some pieces that I just can't let go of.
Hope you have a great week.
hugs, Cindy

saraonyx said...

When, exactly, did you start reading my mind:) My aunt actually said to me one day "I really love all your stuff, but you're decorating yourself right out of the house!" Sometimes I agree, but I love my stuff and to me it's what makes home, home. I too love the Salvation Army, Goodwill, yard sales, etc. Lately I too have become much more picky about what I buy. I have decided that liking it isn't enough, I must LOVE it. If I don't then it has to either stay in the store or get out of my house! I have also decided that the thrifting thing is an addiction:) I think I need a support group! By the way, I love reading your blog:) Sara

Raggedy Angel said...

OK that is it....I don't like you anymore....the only way to save our relationship is to send me that honey pot!!!!!
Only kidding.....but if you can't live with the guilt....send it on!!!
LOL!
Beth

kim said...

I meant to say too that in my last blog Icheck it out! was struggling with What to say....

kim said...

Janene -Don't know you, but LOVE you!!! Soemtimes, it is discouraging for me, because I don't have the money to do all that I want to...seems to be even LESS money right now....my husband is a salesman.....
But....my son is 22 and LOVES to shop at Goodwill and LOVES old stuff...he has his soon to be wife loving it too! It is so refreshing! They have their new little home filled with "old" things and things they have remade or MADE!!! I am proud of them and hope that they continue!

I am struggling to get "crafty" again...as I get down when things get tight, but I always come out of it!!! Thanks for your inspiration!!!